Subtle and not so subtle directions to you, the bereaved From comments directed to you personally, to not so subtle messages from the media, you are familiar with the notion that after a death, closure is important. As a bereaved person, you are familiar with messages, both overt and covert, which direct you to "get on with it", that is, get your grief and mourning behind you and get on with your life. In other words, "get closure"!

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