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Two years after my husband died, a film came out called, "P.S. I Love You." Several people recommended the film to me about a widow whose husband leaves a series of letters and gifts for her to receive during the first year after his death. It took more time before I was able to watch it and find forgiveness and healing. A powerful moment of healing.
Becoming a Minister of Spiritual Peacemaking was a journey, one step at a time. I did not have an aspiration to be a minister. I was a grieving widow who was healing and picking up the pieces. On the weekend of my husband's memorial service, a flyer arrived in the mail. By opening my heart during the grieving of my husband, I discovered a new path.
A Widow Releases Personal Belongings, Sells Her House, Releases the Roles That Died With Her Husband
When my husband died, I had to make a decision about continuing to live in our home or selling it. For 3 1/2 years, I reflected, talked with my kids, meditated, prayed and waited for the clear answer. Flying from Maryland to California for a conference brought my answer. The steps of clearing out the house and the roles attached to the personal belongings.
A woman reflects on the changes that happened in the five years since the lost of her husband. Looking back she had no idea how her life was about to change and all she had to do was let go and leap.
With life comes change, sometimes very difficult ones like dealing with death. This article looks at five ways to come out the other side loving life once more.
Losing a loved one, especially a spouse, is always painful. The heavy transition from being a husband to a widower, wife to a widow, is a very difficult and sorrowful journey.
On September 29, 2000 my alarm clock went off. I pushed the snooze button. I don't want to wake up. I don't feel like writing. I don't want to go back to my job either. Why do I have to type police reports for a living? Ten minutes later, the alarm went off again. I pushed the snooze button. I hate this. I don't want to wake up. I can't write today. Ten minutes later, the alarm went off. Snooze was hit. Am I ever anxious! I hate my job. I don't want to go back there. And nor would I. For during that exact same time frame, my husband - a police officer - was lying on a lunchroom floor, dying of brain injuries.
Dates are peculiar things. The 22nd of September will always be memorable for me, for instance. Whenever the clock strikes 8pm on that day it's almost like I have a minute's silence for a time when a previous life ended and the new one began.
Grief due to death can be similar to grief due to divorce, so I've been told. I am sharing very personal experiences of my grief with you, with the hope of helping you to feel better both emotionally and financially. Although my grief was because of a death, I hope divorcees will relate to my story.
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Spousal Loss

Jungian psychoanalyst Charlotte Mathes experienced a parent’s worst nightmare—the death of her child. In this book, she describes her experience of struggling to find meaning and wholeness in one of the most shattering of experiences. That journey led her to Jungian archetypal psychology and to a heartfelt desire to help others come to terms with the profound sense of grief and loss that follows such an event.


