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Butterbean [Paperback]

51SgWG-U3rL._SL160_AA160_Butterbean is a compassionate allegory of two parents' heart-wrenching loss of their unborn child. It's honest yet hopeful message is sure to give comfort to anyone who has experienced the loss of a loved one.

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Funeral Wreaths

Grief Poems

Submission Guidelines: We accept articles, short stories, and poetry. We only accept submissions from the original author or a publicist hired by the copyright owner to submit material here. We do not pay for submitted content nor do we accept submissions that are primarily advertisements. You may place a brief resource box and contact information at the end of your submission. To submit content to this website, write joanne@grieflossrecovery.com.
Jan102008
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Bong Magno

Dedicated to Cris Angela (ANGEL) E. Magno

She is brave enough to bear the pain alone
Never tell any friend nor loved ones at home
She did it so for a big reason
For her great love and compassion.

She is brave enough to fight for life alone
Not even one has been informed
She did it so for a big reason
So Mom and Dad won't worry at all.

She is brave enough to cross the line
Stood gallantly to face the time
No one knows that it's final
Because her love is so divine.

For love of Me, Gelo and Mom
She kept her secrets all beyond
So peace and harmony in us will reign
No agony, no sacrifice.

She is the Brave Loving Angel
Touching lives everywhere
She is going away up there
Her memories will stay forever.

She is The Brave Loving Angel of mine
Leaving us for life eternal
Her wings spread so far and wide
To join the Great Kingdom of GOD.

Copyright © 2008 Bong Magno. All rights reserved.

This poem is written in loving memory of our daughter Angel Magno http://angelmagno.gonetoosoon.co.uk/

 
Jun262006
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Zack McAndrew

Confusion takes over my brain.
I'm feeling a little bit insane.
What is the purpose of life?
Why do we even fight?
A hand reaches out from the grave.
Pulling me in and saying don't be afraid.
Death has come to us all.
And no matter how hard you try,
you're going to fall.
Falling down beneath the walls.
In the cracks you will crawl.
Trying to get away from it all.
And still you lie covered in gloom and
hatred for the world.
You try to scream but no ones there.
You are in the final stages.
A sudden pain shoots through your veins as
everything becomes clear.
You're in a place you know not of.
You're in a place far above.
You're in a place were you feel no pain
and not everyone is the same,
and most of all you are in a place where
nothing of your  mortal life means anything.

Copyright © 2002 Zack McAndrew. All rights reserved.

 
Jun022006
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Joy Curnutt

Thanks, Mom, for your decision,
I'm really proud of you.
For you did something wonderful,
You knew I'd want you to.

We come to this earth to show love,
And to give as much as we can.
You made the decision to give part of me,
Knowing I'd help my fellow man.

I know that sometimes there's still sadness,
And you really miss seeing me.
Know that I'm always with you,
Just not physically.

You wear the green ribbon pin proudly,
And love for someone to ask.
To tell them your son was a donor
Is part of your work and task.

Mom, where I am now is wonderful,
It's beautiful, I don't have a care.
Remember, don't take your organs and tissue to heaven,
Cause we don't need them there.

About the author: With inspiration by Jason (Nov. 26, 1974 - April 11, 1999)

Copyright © 2001 by Joy Curnutt. All rights reserved.

   
Jun082006
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Sheila M. Sanchez

I woke up this morning and thought about you,
And wondered how I would do today without seeing you.

I dwell on the negative and what I don’t have,
Instead of the future, to make my heart glad.

I pray to Jehovah to help me to see,
That soon in the future you’ll come back to me.

To not dwell on sad memories that have already past,
But keep busy in his service, so the last days will go fast.

To look forward to the future when you’ll wake up and see,
And wonder for a moment where in the world you could be.

Our home will be waiting, your clothes still all there,
Singing praises to Jehovah we’ll all have a share.

To thank our Dear Father for his wonderful promise,
To see you again, he has bestowed this upon us.

I now focus on the future, and the time near at hand,
And a scripture in the Bible I do understand.

It says we are not tested beyond what we can bare,
We can call on his help because he really does care.

That to test you to the end, was more than you could take,
And his love for you he would never forsake.

What was best for you is what I must remember,
And not dwell on the sad news we got in December.

To focus on the future and seeing you again,
To make sure I’m there and survive till the end.

I love you Dear Mother and soon you will see,
That I did not pass up this opportunity.

To listen to your teaching and find my way,
To a place called Paradise in which we’ll all stay.

About the author: Visit Sheila’s web site at www.geocities.com/casassy000h/

Copyright © 2001 by Sheila M. Sanchez. All rights reserved.

 
Jun022006
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Diane Payne

He cared deeply about life
the obituary stated
and friends questioned the writer
why that was said
since the dead had committed suicide.

The writer defended her words by claiming the dead cared
so deeply about life that he found his to be unbearable
haunted by a beast
that left him immobilized in bed
unable to sleep
dreading the possibility of mutilating others
or being mutilated by another.

He cared deeply about life
and wished his depression would disappear
but it didn’t
she explained
never admitting that those words
were written with hopes of eliminating her guilt
for not ending her friend’s misery.

He ended his own misery
and she continues on
the martyr
proclaiming to others
that her friend cared deeply for life,
failing to admit
he may have cared more deeply for death.

About the author: Diane lives in rural Arkansas with her nine-year-old daughter and two dogs. She teaches writing at the University of Arkansas-Monticello. Diane has a memoir coming out from Red Hen Press. E-mail: diane@seark.net

Copyright © 2001 by Diane Payne. All rights reserved.

   

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