Losing a child is more than a parent's nightmare; it is against the laws of nature. Children aren't supposed to die before their parents. If your child has died you may feel like you died too. This article, by a grandmother who lost her daughter, father-in-law, brother, and former son-in-law within nine months, describes the steps she took to re-join life...

Assuming you are not looking for the physical body of someone who has passed on, it is not so difficult to connect with your deceased friend or family member. That being said, there are certain steps that I, as a Medium, take before connecting with the deceased. If you are planning a visit with someone who has died, my suggestion is to follow a simple protocol such as what I share below, not just to maximize your results but also for your protection.

How do we deal with the space created from loss? All of us experience loss throughout our lifetime. There are the obvious losses: death of a loved one, divorce, health, a career, money...And there are more subtle losses: our youth, our identity, our children growing up and leaving, dreams that will never be realized... Find out how to grieve well.

The sense of responsibility we have as pet owners is huge in itself. For some the comparison to children is fair. How many people do you know who count their pets among their 'dependents'? Maybe you are one of them? So, when we helplessly watch them suffer an illness or aging, how do we make the big decision to let them go? How do we grieve our heart-felt loss of our dear loved ones?